Eleven Proven ways to get along better wtih everyone

1. Before you say anything to anyone, ask, yourself 3 things.
a. Is it ture?
b. Is it kind?
c. Is it necessary?

2. Make promises sparingly and keep them faithfully.
3. Never miss the opportunity to compliment or say something encouraging to someone.
4. Refuse to talk negatively about others; don't gossip and don't listen to gossip
5. Have a forgiving view of people believe that most poeple are donig the best they can.
6. Keep an open mind; discuss, but don't argue.( It si possible to disagree with being disagreeable.
7. Forget about counting to 10. count to 1000 before doing or saying anything that could make matters worse.
8. Let your virtues speak for themselves
9. if someone criticizes you , see if there is any TRUTH to what he is saying; if so, make changes, if there is no TRUTH to the criticism, ignore it and live so that no one will believe the negative remark.
10. Cultivate your sense of humor; laughter is the shortest distance between two people.
11. Do not see so much to be consoled, as to console; do not seek so much to be much to be understood, as to understand do not seek so much to be loved as to love.